Bion L. Chaffee, 78, of Cassadaga, NY, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday January 25, 2025. He was born September 12, 1946 in Erie, PA., son of the late Bion and Rita (Anthony) Chaffee. Bion, raised ...

Bion L. Chaffee, 78, of Cassadaga, NY, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday January 25, 2025. He was born September 12, 1946 in Erie, PA., son of the late Bion and Rita (Anthony) Chaffee.

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